Its 3.47pm now,we just came back... Many relatives from my in laws side came, most whom I didn't know nor recognised. They also don't know who I am until my SIL introduced me as her late brother's wife...most of them would say, "oh, kids so big already..... " I just smiled and nodded my head...
Yes, it has been more than 13 years since my husband's demise, my girl was only 2 then and never have the privilege of knowing him or even remembering him at all, except through his photos. She only knows her grandfather who doted and pampered her in all ways.
My MIL stays with my SIL and my BIL is not from IPOH. I am the only DIL here in ipoh and thus at times, I do things my way instead of following FIL's ways. That is why the conflict at times and eventually led to some "silent treatment" at times.
Despite all of this what I meant to say is... FIL loves my kids very much... He is their number One Grandfather... and I... I am an In and Out-law daughter.