Wednesday, March 24, 2010

He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother...

As I took Labbie for her walk this evening, I met up with someone dear to me along the same road. Today he was walking very slow instead of his usual "fast pace." Later I heard from my mum that he is not feeling too good.. the side effects of his 11th chemo begins to show the side effects and its "ugliness." I felt very sad when I heard that...

All along the treatment from #1 till #10, he was still alright, he could walk faster than me... he sweated and HE had the stamina, his determination to fight against the cancer was very positive. I hope he will continue to carry this determination and the strong will power to go on and on.... I really pray that he will... don't give up..

"I feel your pain, your sorrow.... though I do not show it, I feel very much for u... cos... U AIN'T HEAVY... U R MY BROTHER...and I Love U..."

31 comments:

  1. i'm sorry to hear that claire. u r there for him, he knows that. he'll get better with time.. hugs..

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  2. So sad when we hear of such news. Just uphold him in prayer and share Christ's love with him.

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  3. Yup, he aint heavy he's my brother, really sometimes i really wish my siblings would say this this to me,

    just show your love and concern to him and the rest,mmmmmmmmmmmmm is up to HIM lah

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  4. merryn: i blogged about what i felt.. this was how i felt just now.. thanks.. *hugs*


    small kucing: blogging my feelings out :(


    jessie: yes, the rest is up to him and HIM...


    eugene: sometimes we asians never profess our love.. we express indirectly and sometimes the other side ended up not knowing.. like me, i expressed thru my blog, he may or may not know about it.. but this was how i really felt..

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  5. Yeah....he looks fine when I saw him during CNY. Will pray for him , as well as your mum. Cheers! He's also my bro.

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  6. so sorry to hear this. Take care ...

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  7. chrisau: i am so afraid.. this one 11th time..and still hv to go.. how long can he take it?


    joanna: thanks.. *hugs*


    mingna: hope he can take it..

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  8. sorry to hear this claire. it must be heartbreaking to see someone so dear like this. stay strong and be there for him always.

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  9. it hurts to see people who hv to go thro chemo, just like my late MIL whom i love very much.

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  10. yeah he needs more cares... wish he could stay strong... i recovered from a serious sickness too... so i understand the feeling well...

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  11. Thanks for dropping by and commenting. I'm sorry about the difficulties with chemo.

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  12. Sorry to hear that. This the second story I heard about cancer patient today. This morning I spoke to my fren about his sister cancer treatment.

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  13. very sorry to hear this. my prayers are with you and your family, especially your dear brother.

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  14. barb: yes, i will do what i can..


    wenn: if it works, it is worth doing..


    fufu: thanks.. we will give him moral support..


    LIZ: thanks for returning visit..


    pete: it seems 1 to 3 can get cancer.. isnt that scary?


    gus: thank u for your prayers...

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  15. i am sure with tat positive attitude he will go on very fine, believe it.....positive outlook is very very important...

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  16. I hope he realizes that there are people around who care for him and that should motivate him to keep hanging on. Thanks for the visit!

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  17. manglish: thanks for coming by.. yes, positiveness is important but how much we can be able to..it is hard..



    techa: hope he does hang on strong.

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  18. So sorry to hear that. I know nothing we say will make any difference. But please know that we're always here to listen!

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  19. Salute your brother for his courageous to fight against the "war", tell him to keep it up and cheers always, he will recover in no time!!

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  20. kiasumum: yes, i know.. that is what our blogs are for.. to write out our feelings.. and knowing many of u care..


    alice: yes, i also admire his determination.. really.

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  21. yes, don;t give up! as long as he's determined, all will end well. kampatei!

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  22. Ya...really sad when one has cancer. But if it is in a later stage already, it is better that they move on quickly. Sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind. The pain is really too much to bear. May God have mercy on us all and spare us from such suffering...

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  23. peiyi: hope he does.. he is too young..


    stp: not later stage .. but dont like to see our loved ones suffering.. it pains our hearts..

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  24. Be by his side and pray. May God be with him to ride this huge wave. :(

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  25. Firstly, I'm sorry about you brother. But I have to agree with suituapui! We really have no idea what is the pain he is suffering. We could only feel sad and sorry for him, and not other than that! Tears cannot help either and that's the fact. May god bless him along the way! Take care and be strong.
    Best regards,
    Kristy

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  26. I think most, if not all of us, experience having a loved-one suffering from cancer.
    Prayers do work. Take care ya.
    +Ant+

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  27. tekkaus: thank u.. i pray for him each day.. hope he is taking this with full determination..


    kristy: yes, all lies in the hands of our Lord too.. may His grace continues to be upon my bro.. he needs it very much...


    gratitude: yes, prayers do.. cos God listens!

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  28. I m sure he can be strong with ur care and family too..Will pray for him...HUGS****

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