Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Park Song Ha, Leslie Cheong, Anita Mui....


When I read the Star this afternoon, I was shocked to see what was written about Park Song Ha, aged 33. He acted in Winter Sonata and since then, he became very famous. Even Malaysian tourists are taken to the place where this korean series took place.

What happened to him?

Aged 33, handsome... famous... but depressed. He reminded me of Leslie Cheong Kwok Wing, the Hongkong singer/actor, he was also depressed and committed suicide by jumping off the building. Park Song Ha committed suicide by hanging himself in his room with his electric charger, it was written. Poor mum of his.. she was the one who found him the next morning...

Why suicide? So normal, so healthy.... Anita Mui came to my mind. How she fought against cancer to be alive... how others fight on each day to live but could not.. life is so precious....

Depression really kills.... let us be more alert towards our family, our friends... any sign of strangeness in them, send out an SOS... this is the least we can do for them...

40 comments:

Keats The Sunshine Girl said...

I do not now this actor but it is so sad. Depression eats into a person . Certainly help can be given.

VanillaSeven said...

Be glad with the life that we have. We don't know what path those people has been through.

Beii said...

wow..sadly there are so many of such cases nowadays.:( Really do have to be concern about our love ones too and not regret it later :( R.I.P Park Song Ha.

smallkucing said...

sometimes they are too famous jor. Dont know who to turn to when they have "sum si". Turn to the wrong person then the whole thing will become big huha and known to public.

These quiet ones are in danger the most.

Those who shout say going to die and all that are less likely to do it.

Depression kills

claire said...

keats: depression can "kill" in a way..


vanilla: treasure life...


beii: money and fame is not everything... yeah..


kathy: yes when one keeps quiet, then dangerous .. if talkative, then u know he is safe..

Pete said...

Rat race......depression cases on the rise!

ChrisAu said...

Yes, depression can be dangerous! And it affects everyone. Try to nip depression in the bud, where at the first few signs if u think u r not quite right like no interest in almost everything, do something about it like talking to someone or get medical attention

Merryn said...

"Depression really kills.... let us be more alert towards our family, our FRIENDS... any sign of strangeness in them, send out an SOS... this is the least we can do for them..."

The above statement is just so true.

foongpc said...

So sad to see someone so young took his own life. Depression is a killer indeed!

Ginny said...

Gosh, I have not heard of this actor or the show, but look at how handsome and successful he was. He had it all, but yet he didn't! Just goes to show we can have everything of this world, and still nothing. I think of a whole young life just wasted by this tragedy. Someone's pain must be so incredibly unbearable to be able to do this...and his poor mom!! He has left a broken and inconsolable person behind.

The Blonde Duck said...

Popped in to say hi. How sad!

manglish said...

ya i heard abt it last nite...pity eh...so leng cai

cleffairy said...

I salute Anita Mui, you know. She fought til her last breath. While life is hard, sometimes we need to realize that some others fought so much just to live a little while longer. She's my hero. =D Imagine fighting breast cancer to the last moment. I cannot imagine how....

*Small~Boar* said...

alot of these cases in korea entertainment world. must be a real stress place to be in. kesian... but still, that's not the best route to take...

just like jay chou's 'dao xiang' lyrics *when you fall and think life is not worth living, please on the tv and see how many are fighting courageously for their next breath*

should not take life lightly.....

Serene said...

I can't believe the news too... life is so precious! kesian his parents! Ya, Depression really kills... this is true.

Together We Save said...

That is so sad!! His poor mother!

iamthewitch said...

Definitely heart wrenching episode.. especially to the mother..

reanaclaire said...

pete: yes, cannot take the pressure.. sigh..



foongpc: must read how to overcome depression.. it is not good to be alone and lonely..



ginny: yes, pity the family he left behind.. esp the mum..



blond duck: an unfortunate tragedy..

reanaclaire said...

manglish: leng chai, yau cheen, sang mang.. and yet.. not good to be famous, i guess.. pressured..



smallboar: yeah, read somewhere that koreans are one of the high rated country to commit suicide.. :(



serene: must read more about depression...



togetherwesave: everyone pities his mum..



sweetwitch: so young and full of life ahead... :(

Isley Chang~ said...

so sad. he was the first korean artist i started to know.

wenn said...

ya, i remember in 1993 1 was taken to see that place in seoul.

koRnholio said...

yea life is short and really fragile. so live it to the fullest and love your loved ones everytime u can

AngelineChee♥Blog said...

So wasted...

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Mommy Ling said...

Yes...depression can kill. Yea, once i were quiet and almost get myself kill. Anyway, now i voice out..always said want to die...so you dont need to worry bout me..cos i wont die..hahahhah

reanaclaire said...

isley: my girl hasnt start watching then.. but now she is engrossed in the series..


wenn: i havent been there yet.. but heard of it..



angeline: wonder why...



ling: please dont ever think of it again.. life is not worth just giving it away like that.. think + ly.. so many people are fighting to live.. :p

suituapui said...

Yes, depression can be really serious...but do not be deceived if a person looks happy. The mind is a very complex thing... Best thing to do is to give the love and attention needed.

BoeyJoey said...

this is so sad... you are right, the least we can do is to observe that there's a problem and get help for them.

Website Design said...

I am aghast to read that this guy committed suicide.From the above picture,he doesn't seem to be someone who'll take such a drastic action.Ending life like this is just pathetic.This is merely a cowardly act.

reanaclaire said...

stp: if only we can identify before it is too late..


boeyjoey: there is always a solution .. right?



website design: actually to commit suicide takes a lot courage, but any sane person will think twice.. only when they get too depressed and cannot think soberly, they end their life..

Cath J said...

sad....sooo sad.... not that bcoz he died... but sad on the decision he choose... -_-

This Is My Blog - fishing guy said...

Clair: Certainly a direction in life that is so foolish. I have a hard time grasping it with my mind.

Ah Ngao said...

my colleague hanged himself with a computer cord,next morning the sister opened his door to see - one of the saddest thing on earth.i do not understand many things in life,and many times it's better not to understands at all.just be cheerful as often as possible.

MODERN ROBINSON CRUSOE said...

I think a person may not fully understand what really goes through those who suffer from it

Annie Q said...

Depression and end up committed suicide cases from Korea getting more and more!! :(

claire said...

cath: yes..dont know what really happened..


fishingguy: so many wanted to live desperately..



ah ngao: serious? so painful..



robinson: yes, only those undergone before will understand.. we layman cannot..very saddening..



annie: so sad when thinking about that.. life is so precious..

Tekkaus said...

I don't think it is just because of depression. I think it is due to...other factors as well. :(

reanaclaire said...

tekkaus: u seem to know something? :)

Ah Ngao said...

reanaclaire, he is both my colleague and my friend .

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