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I wonder about this myth whether it is true or not...

If a single lady in her late forties with no boyfriend, is she more prone to sensitivity? What I meant is ... is an unmarried lady is more sensitive than those married ones? (sensitive here mean siew hei)

Let me put it this way... lately I realize that a single lady in her late forties and staying alone, tends to be very sensitive, compared to the years when she was younger. Every little thing, she gets worked up easily, gets irritated easily, gets angry very fast....

Sometimes I really find it very hard to "adjust" or "compromise" when it comes to conversation with a sensitive single lady.... I rather be alone, it is rather stressing to be with someone whom Ineed to think over what to say, for fear I might get "backfired" when I am talking nonsense at times, for fear she might take the joke seriously when I am not, for fear, I might hurt her unintentionally cos I say the wrong words ....

....and eventually, she might ends up not talking to me....and I am here, wondering what I have said wrongly? What have I done....

I am really at my wits end sorting out what had actually happened.... no use asking her ... it has happened over and over again and I still wondering who and what has gone wrong....

Comments

  1. nah..marital status is a factor..then must consider the followings:
    a. bleeding not (PMS or menopause)
    b. enuff food not (hunger can make one mangchang)
    c. enuff money not(poverty also same effect)
    d. sex deprivation (applicable to females too hoh)
    e. dan lain lain (like jealous that you prettier, happier than her)

    Hard hoh? Stay in your corner better la. OR come talk with us, the siau ones :P

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  2. i know u always have the answer Professor Bang-Kock, it is so sien at times... i prefer the good old days when we can talk anyting under the sun..now i m so jau kei ..when i think of the shanghai trip next week, going with her, i also sien already.. i tot of pulling out and if i do, i will be the worst villain in IPOH..

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  3. It is not a myth though i reckon, but it is more of a kind of one's insecurity, i have got those unmarried lady friends in their forties, still hip and happenings

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  4. Ohh dear.. I have no idea.. mayb.. stress of life..

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  5. Claire, i do agree that single lady is really prone to sensivity. I guess because they lack of security and no trust with ppl surrounding them..so they tend to be more aggresive in order to protect themself.And sex really can change someone's feeling..a person without sex tend to be more unhappy, moody and also easily to angry.Maybe you try to think about how pity her life is compare to your life such as she is staying alone, no husband,no family...how lucky you are compare to her.then you will not get mad so easily..it is very tiring to angry with someone..

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  6. i m not angry or mad with her..in fact i feel i dont know what to do at times..cos she gets angry easily and i have to adapt to her mood swings.. sometimes i do not know what to do already...so we keep a distance... i call her after some time.. wait till it subsides...

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  7. Hi .....hey ive realised that even married women have those problems so dont think too much of it......i guess as we grow older we grow more rigid.....and more set in our ways.........and worse still we develop opinions and along with them a feeling that ours are the only ones right...........so if you friend is extra sensitive its probably just so and has nothing to do with her being single........but yeah could be that she feels victimized..........whatever.Hey evrey body has some emotional baggage or the other......maybe you could just keep it simple.........

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  8. Maybe she wants to get married and hasn't managed to do so yet! Otherwise, staying single is an option - one way of life! I always tell my daughter to be herself and do what she wants - as long as she's happy...I am happy too! Nothing to feel shy or ashamed about. In fact, many singles are much happier than many married ones...

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  9. yes..being single has its advantages.. just make ourselves happy doing things we like .. occupying our time with our interest without feeling guilty that we r neglecting our love ones..
    i wish that we can be good frens as before without feeling uncomfortable with each other.. but i will never give up on friendship.. will keep on trying to make amends and amend myself..

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  10. I think it all boils down to the person's personality and the insecurities (as elaborated by the good prof fooly, err..gooly, i mean) she feels! There are perfectly happy and balances loe-ku-poh around too, lol!
    Hey, so u going to Shanghai next week? I'm flying off next Sat night, or rather early Sun morning! Same flight as me kah? If so, then see u at KLIA lor!

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  11. Haha, Prof Bang-Kock is sooo professional hoh? Another Prof also from Bang-kock but with the initials SK in front (Sin Kah) says that it is definitely due to too much "lack of lam yan" air in her life. :p
    Take care. CY

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