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Life Lessons From People Who Dropped Everything And Moved

 Most of us stick in roughly the same geographical region all our lives. We’re afraid to venture out into the unknown, try new things, and explore the world. It seems like too much of a change - too much to do all in one go. 


But it turns out that there are actually people out there who have gone ahead and done it. They got tired of their regular lives and decided to move halfway across the world to try something different. It was massively disruptive, but they learned a lot about the process along the way. 


It turns out that a lot of hyper-successful people leave their old lives behind. They’re not happy with how they’re turning out, and so they want to try something new. Changing location isn’t just about setting - it’s also about mindset. And it teaches you a huge amount about yourself and what matters in life when you finally bite the bullet and do it. 


You Can Only Discover Truth When You Walk Away From The Familiar


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The people around you are desperate to define who you are. But the truth is that your so-called “self” is a mess. It changes from one day to the next. 


Getting away from it all, moving to a new place, and starting afresh completely changes your perspective on who you are. You come to the realization that you’re not a fixed entity that remains constant through time. There are all sorts of things you can do with your life. There are no rules - especially when you get away from the people holding you back. 


You Gain Resilience


Employers talk a lot about the virtues of resilience these days. They want people who can withstand the pressures of the marketplace and thrive.


Resilience, however, can come from other places too. People who travel a lot, for instance, often gain a lot of confidence in their ability to make things happen in their lives. They learn to stand firmly on their own two feet. And they don’t give in to their nagging feelings of fear and anxiety that held them back in their previous life. 


You Can Still Bring Your Favourite Things With You


Dropping everything doesn’t mean leaving everything behind. It turns out that you can bring all your favorite things with you when you move, no matter where you want to go. It usually just involves getting a shipping quote and hiring somebody to transport it for you. 


You Learn To Trust Your Instincts


Moving to a brand new place can make you vulnerable. There are all kinds of horror stories of vacationers traveling to foreign lands, only to get scammed out of their money. 


When you travel to a new place, you learn to listen to your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, that’s probably because it isn’t. 


Does a deal seem too good to be true? Ignore it. 


You Can’t Make Mistakes


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You often hear people saying things like “you can’t make mistakes in life.” It sounds like a glib statement, but there’s a lot of truth to it. 


When you get something wrong, you’re actually educating yourself. You’re uncovering the patterns that led to the problem, and then you’re taking the action necessary to prevent it from happening again. 


Most people look back at the mistakes in life with regret. But seeing them as a learning experience is a healthier way to view them. In many ways, you can’t make mistakes in life. You’re just confronting new adventures. 


You Discover Who You’re Attached To


Something strange happens when you move away. You suddenly discover who’s important in your life, and who isn’t.


People who move away often talk about how their attachments change dramatically. Some people naturally float away, and they’re not missed at all. Others remain in their hearts long-term. And the bonds actually get stronger, the longer they’re away. 


These are the relationships that you're meant to hold onto. They’re the ones that matter. And they are what make going home again worthwhile. 


You Realize You Have Personal Efficacy


It’s easy to get into the habit of believing that you don’t have a lot of personal efficacy in your life. With lockdowns and other travel restrictions, it can sometimes feel that way.


But when you drop everything and move, you remind yourself that you’re in complete control of your life, and there’s nothing anyone else can do to stop you. You discover that you have the final word in what happens, not other people. 


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