Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Stages of Gowing up..

3rd precious words...When she got into my car this evening, the first thing she said was.."mum, my teacher scolded me today" then she kept quiet...her mum has to prompt and made many guesses before she could finally relate what happened..Its all bec of the cheerleading event again, this time one of her girls went to Parkson Grand alone at 11something in the morning wearing school uniform. Seems she got caught by a teacher and upon questioning, she blamed my daughter for being the one who instructed her to go parkson to buy some pom pom stuff... and my quiet precious was summoned into the staff room to be interrogated, she being a girl of few words, kept mum about the whole incident, never explaining to the teacher that the girl went on her own, not upon instructions as she lied.... after all, I m the one who bought all the stuff for them...
So as not to be reprimanded by the teacher, she put the blame on my blur blur girl who was too shocked to say anything when being scolded...
Well, i told her, this is a good lesson to learn as we go thru our lives, so many kinds of people we will come across in life, some honest, some shrewd, some smart, some blur blur, some cunning and some are loyal till the end...A time to analyse characters of a person as we go thru phases of life..regardless of what age we are now, there is always something to grasp and to hold or to let go...who the faithful ones are and whom we should trust....
She is feeling kind of down now...besides relating to her that not everyone is what she expect to be, she also has One whom she can depend on...ie our Jesus, son of God Almighty..He will always be with us, in us and for us no matter what happens...

1 comment:

  1. eh just now i left one comment at ur blog over here why disappear adi. nevermind i write again.. i was saying make sure ur duck has no heart beat adi.. or who knows when u close the cover and take a nap suddenly ur duck-duck will be dancing and jumping in the pot.. saying... "help" i want to have family reunion dinner too.. get me out of here like dat..haha

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